Self confidence

Are you self - confident?             

Some of you will say yes, Great!

Some of you will may be not sure, it's all right!

Now you must be wondering why I am asking this, but before I answer your question, you should answer some of my questions.

If you are a student, had it ever happened to you that the teacher asked a question in the class and you knew the answer, yet you did not answer?

Do you wonder how people like you go to the stage and speak in front of people without any hesitation? While you are afraid to go to the stages. 

And there are a lot of such questions, to which you will answer yes.

Do you know why this happens to you?

Let me tell you -

This happens because you are not self – confident.

Self-confidence means a feeling of trust in someone's own abilities.

"Self-confidence is a super power. Once you start to believe in yourself, magic starts happening."

Now you may be thinking, why you are not self-confident?

It has many reasons, like

• You are afraid of being criticized by others.

Someone said very beautifully that- 

"zindagi me aap zo krna chahte hai wo jarur kijiye, ye mat sochiye ke log kya kahenge, kyunki log to tab bhi kuch kahte hai jab aap kuch nhi krte."

Other reasons are:

• You don't have the required skill - For example, when you had a chance to go on the stage then you might not have gone because you did not have proper communicative skills.

• Lack of supportive people around you - Sometimes it happens that you want to do something different but people around you demotivate you instead of supporting you.

• Lack of inner motivation - This is very important. if you are motivated from inside, then what people think about you, what they talk about you does not really matter for you.

Well guys always try to be inspired instead of motivated "because motivation is temporary but, inspiration is permanent"

And there may be a lot more such reasons of lacking self-confident.

Now you might be interested in knowing that how can you become so confident that the next time when you get a chance to prove yourself, self-confidence should not be the reason for your failure?

Here are some tips to be self-confident all the time.

• Visualize yourself as you want to be - close your eyes and think that you have become what you wanted to be in your life. 

try this technique when you are free. 

• Always speak positive to yourself - statements like 'how lucky I am' or 'I can do this' will keep you confident.

• Get out of your comfort zone - Do one thing that scares you everyday, this will help you in conquering your fear.

• Be your own critic - Introspection is must. spend some time with yourself when you are alone (observe your own behaviour, actions etc.)

• Remove "I can't" word from your dictionary - always ready to take challenges.

"you never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice"